My coworker’s good at home decorations because she bought antique furniture and did interior design. Now her home looks old, with washing out fabrics, and she also transformed her yard, where when the sun has cooled hummingbirds purr over plants and the vanilla bushes at their most fragrant.

A girl said her life changed dramatically; she dated several guys, felt wasted her time, so she focused on her work for a while, didn’t have sex; but one day she met a man, she felt he was the man she was waiting for a long time, so she lived together with him; when her friend asked about it, she was humorous, said like, “At the beginning I said, who knows if it works, but I’ll take it; but later I even said to him like, I’m yours for life.” Her friend laughed.

My coworker said he’s changed his daily activities because he just works enough, then he starts to exercise, and social; he also takes some short trips and he wants to make everything just enough; it means he could have a walk, a coffee, a restaurant dinner, and then sex.

A girl said she’d met different people because she’s an interesting person; when she talking a lot about herself, her adventures, her joy with her exes, her rage, love, vulnerability and loss, others said she just wants people know everything she’d don which is funny.

My friend’s sexy, attractive, but her real power is her gaze. She used her gaze get what she wanted: rich boyfriend, big house, luxury lifestyle, because she knows how to use her sexy body, gaze, to achieve her goal.

A girl said she used to appreciate clothes and fine wine a lot because she felt it was her chic and it could leave some imagination to others. When she wearing mini-skirt that got a thigh-grazing she felt good. When people seeing her with a slick of red lip-stick they might have a sense of mystery, but she always attracted to bad guys.

A girl said she saw her friends got married and after a while break up, so she didn’t cast herself as a victim because she understanding that after the passion wearing off that was the way it was. When she was cheated again, she considered herself still pretty, but not wanting to be some bullshit diva anymore.

A girl said when she was young she had ambitions but she only met bad guys. When she learned something and met a rich guy she found she realized her dream because her guy was famous. Then she and her guy went to travel, to social clubs, and she seemed not remembering where she came from, which let her make mistake again, and understand she’s not always been this fortunate.

My friend said she had an early marriage and then ended up divorce. While her mother, friend, blamed on her stupidity, she started to date again and she became smart because she let her mother, friend giving her advice, and she not let boys being close to her body.

My friend said she wanted to show her good side after left a bad guy, but people still think she’s party girl, saying she just drinks champagne, spends money; now she fights back, saying: “Don’t you see I work hard? I’m achieved something?”

My friend finally left her partner who had abused her for years; when she traveled around world, she found some hidden gems: a laid-back oasis, where she riding camel along the sand, took photos with goats, and she said like, “They are cute, well fed.”

My friend’s sexy, cool. She likes fashion, and she always looks great. Once a friend saw her photo: a bikini photo with white sunglasses, and he wanted to go out with her, but she smiled and said like, “I’m married.”

A guy said he likes sport, fashion but he also made bad decisions because he always had addictive cycle. Since he just dating, spending money, he had depression, anxiety, and feels he’s spending his hard-earned cash and getting the pleasure of the moment.

My coworker is a creative person. Her dream was working for a company, when coming home, she had her evening job: designing for fashion industry, writing her novel, painting, and all her creations were done in the evening.

My coworker said her parents were the ones always encouraging her do the best. While she was interested in fashion and sports, but she focused on environment, justice, equal right because she worried about our generation, felt what fuel many was self-interest.

Conscious Learning: If your mother is a biracial person and you find your relatives live in different parts of the world, your conscious learning about your family members may let you have unique view point and creation motivation about fashion and business: a mix of different cultures, races, activities and fun time.

A girl said she started a fashion business with her boyfriend, but she thinks it’s better for her to leave him because they argued a lot and had fight. She had tearful moment, scaring situation, now they barely speaking to each other, and there is so much tension there.

A girl said she was very fashionable for a while but did all those things for just surviving because she was alone. Since she making a living by being sexy towards men she felt no shame, just hard working because it was her life.

My neighbor said she made a mistake before when she was fashionable and dreamed to be successful; so she started to figure out something and learned how to fit in for a new environment, she said her unintentionally flirting was hilarious, but it incited desire. So she objectified herself and went into it willingly.  

A friend said she thinks people like to control others because she sees man like to control woman and woman like to control man. But she also finds something else: the only moment people lost control but not feeling bad is when they have sex.

My friend is a people person, he lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he go to travel again for a fashion company, this time he not just gets the job done, but also finds his lover in life.  

If you start your business at home and now you have branch stores, you may say your creation is smart, fearless, powerful, and boundary-pushing, but others may say: you sold yourself because you’re seductive, sexy, oddly.

My coworker said she always gives tips to her friends: how to enjoy life, spend weekend reading newspapers on bed, and try local food. Now she said her friend has surpassed her because she gives her tips such as how to have a perfect romance, get right skincare products and look young and cool.

If you likes fashion, and you have your attitude toward many things, you many feel your behavior, dating and divorce let others pointing a finger at you, saying you are a failure, but you may say it’s your choice, a choice of being happy, because you think sometimes happiness didn’t exist just for staying in a marriage. 

If you are good at home decorations you may buy antique furniture and do interior design, so your home may look cool, with washing out fabrics; you may also transform your yard, so when the sun has cooled hummingbirds may purr over plants and the vanilla bushes may at their most fragrant.

A guy said he’s a people person, lived in foreign countries, which let him be good at dealing with different people, customers, and sourcing providers. When he goes to travel again, this time he not just gets the job done, but also finds his lover in life.

If your guy said silly things, making stupid jokes, even cheating on you, what would you do? You may get upset, but you may also feel he sometimes seemed to offer support, advice; but what if he says: “I speak from the heart, do what I like”, even it’s crazy?

A girl said she used to be a casual person, but she had a big event. When asked what the big event was she said she met a man, received jewels, then a diamond ring. So she became stylish because her guy liked to see her happy, looking younger and feeling glamorous. When she realized he also had other woman she was not happy again.

A girl said she liked sports and met a guy, so she started her beauty treatment, which let her experience both trauma and cute. So her friend said like, “Really?” She said, “Yep,” because she liked body-sculpting, fat-freezing, skin vacuuming, but after treatments there were after-burns, so she resembling a barbecue.

A girl said she had her dream, but instead having kids. When a friend asked why, said like, “Really?” She said her ex was bad. When she was pregnant she had her doubts about him, but she still with him. She said after left her ex she still wanted to have night out, thinking even life was messy, she still had time to do what she liked.